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I’m Pam, the creator and author behind this blog. “Healing in Real Time” — I share the honest story of my life: the struggles, the resilience, and the ongoing work of healing. My story is not about perfection. It is about resilience, survival, and the ongoing work of healing in real time. Thank you for being here. I hope my words remind you that even in the messy middle, you are not alone.